Anyone Been to a Funeral ?

[Clarkey]

Sorry to bring up this subject but i was wondering if anyone had been to a funeral before and what its like? I Havent been to one before but i have just found out that i have to go to one on thursday.

[BsE Ross]

The first one that cries, loses.

nah but seriously, never been to one myself :P

[Clarkey]

Lol i wont cry :P Its my nans funeral n i have never met her so.

[Eviledd]

Been to 3 of em , the father and mother of my mom and then my fathers father , my fathers mother died like 1 week ago so 4th inc

[Pingu]

I been 2 like 4:( but they only sad if you knew them well but otherwise generally people sad but at the same time like celebrate they lives so it is nice in a way. Honest they not that bad :)

[Clarkey]

Cheers Pingu :D

[Cpt_Oats]

My nans was a Catholic and catholic funerals go on for aaaaaaaaaaagggggggeeeeessss, I remember being in church for hours.

[Mazman]

Went to my granddad's. I didn't really know him very well. It seemed like I was the only one who wasn't crying though, which was awkward...

[Biffo Bear]

i've been to 3, not too bad really just don't feel you need to hold anything back.
also i woldn't recommend not going if you are unsure as you will regret it.

[Eviledd]

i didnt cry on any even tho i knew the persons well . crying just isnt my thing . only thing i cried for ever was like my cat , cried like 10 min then never again :p

[Centarius]

been to 3, my italian nans(who i was close too) my great nan who lived just up the road from me and one of my friends from school back in december.

obviously sad affairs, nothing wrong with crying at them either. If you count my dogs cremation then its 4, balled my eyes out like a baby at that. We had same birthday and were the same age(16), had him all my life, still miss the old boy!

[DuncRx7]

dogs are really bad to lose. . .
i lost my dog last year which we had since i was born
loved her and was devistated when she died :(
but now i cant only remember the good times :D

[Recoil]

been to 3, my italian nans(who i was close too) my great nan who lived just up the road from me and one of my friends from school back in december.



same 4 me man. its hard when someone like that goes. makes it worse when ur close 2 them.

at 1 funeral i wanted 2 laugh, so awkward.

[SpiritSharD]

I've been at 2 funerals.

One was my Grandad's. We were both close and I was young at the time, was quite upset.

The other was my nan's. Didn't know her AS well, but was still upset.



Unless you know them reasonably well, you're not going to get upset to be honest. And like you said, you don't know her...so you've got nothing to be concerned about. Just try and comfort those that are upset I guess. :)

[BsE Ross]

My grandad died, when i was young, so i must have been to that one, just cant remember :/

[flixy]

Went to my granddad's. I didn't really know him very well. It seemed like I was the only one who wasn't crying though, which was awkward...

this^

ive been to about 5 or 6 i think :/